Sleeping: Unfortunately sleeping hasn't improved since my last post. It has actually gone downhill a bit. He takes two naps now after starting to scream all the way through the third one everyday when he was 7 1/2 months. His naps are typically anywhere from 1 to 1.5 hours, which I can't complain too much about since Abby was the queen of half hour naps at this age. However, Abby was sleeping 12-13 hours at night. Matthew...not so much! Things went a little downhill when I stopped swaddling him and he got his DOC band all in the same week. He is always up between 3am and 5am. The only thing that gets him to calm down and go back to sleep is a bottle. So he gets 5 oz during the night still, which I am sure his pediatrician will tell me is not necessary at his appointment tomorrow. The worst part is that he doesn't just go right back to sleep after his bottle. He doesn't cry once he has had the bottle(SOOOO thankful for that) but he just can't get back to sleep. He just rolls around his crib usually taking an hour to go back to sleep and sometimes only for a half hour. Most days he is up for good between 6am and 6:30am. If he doesn't wake up for his bottle before 5 am he usually does not go back to sleep at all after he has it. Seems like a simple solution right? Just don't go in and give him a bottle when he wakes. Only problem is I am 95% sure he would not go back to sleep at all without that bottle which means I have an even crankier baby that has been up since 4am. He also has to have his Prevacid on an empty stomach at least 30 minutes before his bottle. He is already a cranky beast waiting to get his bottle after I get him up in the morning, I can't even imagine how much fun he would be if he hadn't at least had that 5oz a few hours before. I hope to at least try some sort of sleep training next month when Marc is home for a long weekend, as I will need his help entertaining a very angry baby who has been awake since 3 or 4 am. I feel like I have to at least try to help him learn to sleep through that time every morning though. He is just not getting enough sleep at night, even with a 6:15 bedtime. (And yes, I have tried putting him to bed later and he still wakes and the same time and gets even less sleep. :( ) I just really don't want to be getting up at night still with an 18 month old, which is my fear if we don't try to change this waking habit. Ahhhh, the joys of parenthood! Good thing we love love love this kid to pieces! Boy, was I spoiled with Abby!
Movement: We have some!!!! Last month he started army crawling and is getting better at it every day. Just this week he finally started using both sides of his body instead of just his right leg and left arm. I am hopeful that soon he will be up on all fours crawling. I think this will help him to stay a little more content because he can get where he wants to go much faster and won't be putting so much pressure on his belly and possibly aggravating his reflux. I just cannot wait for him to walk for so many reasons! And no I will never wish for him to be less mobile :) When you have a baby with health concerns, it completely changes how you look at things. When he is all over the place getting into things it means he has the health and physical ability to do so!
Eating: This little guy's digestive system continues to stump us! He still gets very little baby food for a couple reasons. #1) He just isn't all that interested. He will eat a tablespoon or two and then not want anymore, yet still be willing to suck down 7 oz of formula right after. #2) He hasn't tolerated many foods very well. The only foods we have found that his system seems to tolerate are sweet potatoes and pears. Our food trials also keep getting messed up by sickness and ear infections so I am never quite sure if it is the sickness, ear infection, antibiotics or food messing with him. It has been a very slow process. He also doesn't not handle anything other than purees. He will gag and throw up on only a tiny little piece of a puff. Needless to say I have learned to only try when he has an empty stomach. So, for now, his main source of nutrition still comes from his elemental formula.
Despite all of our difficulties with this sweet boy, I feel so blessed everyday to have him. Even with all his fussing and crying he brings a smile to my face every single day and it is fun to watch his personality emerging during his "happy" times! He is so much different that Abby was and I am a little worried for what my future holds. I think I am in for it with this one. I certainly don't see him sleeping happily in his crib until he is over 3 years old like his sister. I am willing to bet he has climbed out before his second birthday. He is all boy and loves to make as much noise as possible and is quite destructive already!
A note about the above picture: He has been in his DOC band for 6 weeks now. His head was somewhat flat on the back and right side so we decided that even though it wasn't severe we would rather try to fix it than regret not fixing it after it was too late. We are hoping he only has another 4-6 weeks left to wear it. His head seems to be responding well, at least I think so. The things on his hands that look like workout gloves are actually thumb splints. He has had some difficulties physically and is receiving occupational and physical therapy. Once of his issues has been that he tends to keep his thumbs tucked in and has difficulty manipulating objects because his thumbs don't do what they are supposed to. The thumb splints are intended to keep a good stretch between his thumb and finger so that the muscle doesn't tighten enough to make thumb movement even more difficult. Between the helmet and the gloves, we get A LOT of stares when we are out in public. There have also been some discrepancies between the right and left side of his body, which has brought up suspicion of an in utero stroke with his pediatrician and therapists. At this point we are taking a wait and see approach before we put him under sedation for an MRI. Even if the MRI did show a stroke, it would not change anything we are doing so we don't feel it is completely necessary right now. He is getting the therapies he needs and that is most important.
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